Deftly crafted essays likely to resonate with grateful readers.
Intimate essays on contemporary womanhood.
Award-winning essayist, journalist, and critic Lipson, a 44-year-old mother of three, makes an impressive book debut with a gathering of 12 deeply thoughtful essays on the transitions, joys, and challenges that have marked her life. Anchored by topics such as motherhood and daughterhood, friendship and marriage, beauty, aging, and gender stereotypes, the essays cohere into a revealing memoir. Often, Lipson finds wisdom—or at least comfort—in fictional depictions of women. “There are books that seem to glide into our lives at a particular time as if by design,” she writes, “finishing thoughts just partially formed in our minds.” Kate Chopin’s The Awakening was one, with college freshman Lipson connecting with the sexual stirrings of Chopin’s transgressive Edna. As a mother, confused by her oldest daughter’s apparently fluid gender identity, Lipson found enlightenment in Shakespeare’s cross-dressing Rosalind from As You Like It and Virginia Woolf’s Orlando. She finds solace in Alice Munro’s depiction of motherhood as a “heroic journey,” in which mothers are thinking beings. Lipson is candid about the tensions and worries generated by mothering: She feels unsettled, for example, about letting her son play with guns, part of a larger concern about the cultural messages he’s learning about manhood. A loving wife in a happy marriage, still, she acknowledges a gnawing desire for solitude. Sometimes, she wonders “if marriage, with its contractual origins, can ever fully transcend the transactional. In a marriage, it can feel as if something is always owed, because it’s entirely impossible, despite the gauzy hopes we pin on matrimony, for two people to fulfill each other’s every need.” With empathy and grace, Lipson unravels the tangle of “illusory standards” that weigh on any marriage and any woman’s sense of self.
Deftly crafted essays likely to resonate with grateful readers.Pub Date: March 4, 2025
ISBN: 9781797228563
Page Count: 248
Publisher: Chronicle Prism
Review Posted Online: Jan. 7, 2025
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Feb. 15, 2025
An ebullient nature lover’s paean to birds.
A charming bird journey with the bestselling author.
In his introduction to Tan’s “nature journal,” David Allen Sibley, the acclaimed ornithologist, nails the spirit of this book: a “collection of delightfully quirky, thoughtful, and personal observations of birds in sketches and words.” For years, Tan has looked out on her California backyard “paradise”—oaks, periwinkle vines, birch, Japanese maple, fuchsia shrubs—observing more than 60 species of birds, and she fashions her findings into delightful and approachable journal excerpts, accompanied by her gorgeous color sketches. As the entries—“a record of my life”—move along, the author becomes more adept at identifying and capturing them with words and pencils. Her first entry is September 16, 2017: Shortly after putting up hummingbird feeders, one of the tiny, delicate creatures landed on her hand and fed. “We have a relationship,” she writes. “I am in love.” By August 2018, her backyard “has become a menagerie of fledglings…all learning to fly.” Day by day, she has continued to learn more about the birds, their activities, and how she should relate to them; she also admits mistakes when they occur. In December 2018, she was excited to observe a Townsend’s Warbler—“Omigod! It’s looking at me. Displeased expression.” Battling pesky squirrels, Tan deployed Hot Pepper Suet to keep them away, and she deterred crows by hanging a fake one upside down. The author also declared war on outdoor cats when she learned they kill more than 1 billion birds per year. In May 2019, she notes that she spends $250 per month on beetle larvae. In June 2019, she confesses “spending more hours a day staring at birds than writing. How can I not?” Her last entry, on December 15, 2022, celebrates when an eating bird pauses, “looks and acknowledges I am there.”
An ebullient nature lover’s paean to birds.Pub Date: April 23, 2024
ISBN: 9780593536131
Page Count: 320
Publisher: Knopf
Review Posted Online: Jan. 19, 2024
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Feb. 15, 2024
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SEEN & HEARD
A pleasingly unformulaic book of hard-won advice that never rings false.
The comic and television personality turns serious—semi-serious, anyway—in a combination memoir and self-help book.
Handler opens these generally short essays with a memory of childhood that closes with the exhortation to keep the child within us alive into adulthood: “Hold on to that child tightly, as if she were your own, because she is.” The memory soon veers into the comically absurd, with an account of a cocaine-fueled cross-country trip with a random companion who looked like another TV personality: “I don’t know if Dog the Bounty Hunter does copious amounts of cocaine, but he sure looks like he does.” Drugs and juice are seldom far from the proceedings, but therapy is close by, too, and clearly the latter has been of tremendous use, if “exhausting in the sense that every new development or idea led to a period of intense self-awareness followed by waves of acute self-consciousness coupled with endless self-recrimination.” As the anecdotes progress, that intense self-awareness becomes less fraught. Some of her life lessons are drawn from her experiences wrestling with the yips and setbacks of performing before audiences; some turn into knowing one-liners (“I knew if three men in a row told me not to do something, it was imperative that I do the opposite”). Most, even if tongue-in-cheek or rueful, are delivered with a disarming friendliness laced with her trademark archness: Her account of a dinner opposite Woody Allen and daughter/wife Soon-Yi is worth the price of admission alone. In the main, Handler is a cheerleader for everyone worthy of cheers, and especially women. As she writes, encouragingly, “You have misbehaved, and then corrected, and then misbehaved again, and then corrected some more”—and have grown and flourished.
A pleasingly unformulaic book of hard-won advice that never rings false.Pub Date: Feb. 25, 2025
ISBN: 9780593596579
Page Count: 320
Publisher: Dial Press
Review Posted Online: March 4, 2025
Kirkus Reviews Issue: April 1, 2025
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